If women could say one thing to each other what would it be? This is a question asked oh so often. Well, today January 9. 2010 BLAKStar put an end to that. If you haven’t heard of “The Klatch” a forum about relationships, where real men and women dialogue, you need to get hip. I envision this thing getting really, REALLY big. It’s where we as people put a stop to all the BSing and get straight to the point. In December the all men panel, answered various questions asked by women. This week it was the fellas turn to go INNNNNN. The questions where GREAT!!! As the ladies answered questions like what are the qualities they look for in a man; what are we teaching our children to look for in the opposite sex; and what is the definition of love . . . etc?

Now It’s Time To Reflect:

Out of today’s event, I have learned that in a relationship you are gonna have problems. So many people are looking to run first chance they get. It’s hard work to please your spouse 24/7. But one woman talked about how her husband and she learned to compromise, she said “My husband will admit that he is wrong even when we know he’s right.” Guys how many of you can honestly say that you could do that because you love your woman? Ladies how many of you could stop right dead in your tracks when he admits that he is wrong even when you know he is right?

The next topic at hand was what lies we tell our sons and daughters?

It was obvious that young men were taught to get in where you fit in and eventually you will find that one special person.

What’s Not Taught?

Is the consequence that comes along with that, which was expressed OUT LOUD this evening. Guys you may be having a good time but you are messing it up for the next man that comes along. You become one of the many men that come along spreading “I love you baby, I Wanna be with you baby” and so on. Then when Mr. Right comes along and professes his love she is immune to those words. You make a bigger job for him AND there is a possibility that he might not have the patients to tear that wall down.

And of course we teach out daughters basically to be “MISS INDEPENDENT":

What’s Not Taught?
That’s just the tip of the iceberg; look out for the videos from “The Klatch.” Also check them out for the men and women panel, which will be a great way to spend the day before Valentine’s Day February 13, 2010. If you would like to be a part of the panel please contact get@blakstartalk.com and always remember.

“It’s Time for Something Fresh”